Who Shall Declare His Generation?

I just watched, in my  opinion, one of the greatest devotional addresses. It was given by Bruce R. McConkie on December 2, 1975 at Brigham Young University. Many believe that we, the Mormons, do not believe in Jesus Christ or they do not understand what we believe.  If anyone has wondered what the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (commonly known as the Mormons) believes about Jesus Christ, this is the address you want to watch (I will provide a link at the end of today’s blog so you can watch it.

In that address he testifies to the world of the divinity of Jesus Christ. Many in the world question who Jesus Christ was. Many, even professed Christians, do not believe in his divine birth but Elder McConkie gives the greatest testimony that Jesus Christ is literally the only begotten Son of God, Our Heavenly Father, after the manner of the flesh.

We believe that all who have been born on this earth lived as spirits children of our Heavenly Father before we came here to live as mortals. Jesus Christ was the first begotten Son of God in that spirit world. Christ under the direction of Heavenly Father created this earth and everything on it for us as part of Heavenly Father’s plan for our progression. Prior to this, a council was held in heaven where God presented his plan for us. We were to be born and have physical bodies and live on the earth in a probationary state. Essential in that plan was our agency, the right to choose to obey God’s commandments or not. God’s plan included that a Savior would be provided and he would atone for the sins of all of God’s children thus providing a way to come back and live in His presence after this probationary period was over.

In that council God asked: “Whom shall I send?” Meaning who will be the Savior of mankind? Jesus Christ responded: “Hear am I, send me” and thus he became our Savior (Abraham 3:27). After the heavens and the earth were created and mortality began; Jesus Christ was Jehovah, the God of the Old Testament.  It was Jesus Christ that spoke to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. He was the one that appeared to Moses in the burning bush and gave him the commandments and the Old Testament law. It was of Jesus Christ that all the prophets testified that a Messiah would come to save his people. Isaiah said:

“For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince Peace.” (Isaiah 9:6)

Matthew and Luke record their stories of the birth of Jesus Christ (see Matthew 1 and Luke 1). Nephi, in the Book of Mormon also sees a vision of Christ’s birth (see 1 Nephi 11:15-21). Jesus Christ’s mother was Mary, a mortal person, and from her he had the power to give up his life and die. Christ’s Father was God our Heavenly Father, and from him he had to power of eternal life or the ability to take his life again after he was crucified as a sacrifice for our sins. Jesus Christ was the only person who had the ability to be our Savior, no other person could have the power over life and death as he did. He willingly came to earth and was born of Mary as his mother and with God as his father after the manner of the flesh. He willingly suffered for our sins in the Garden of Gethsemane and he willingly suffered at the hands of the Jews and was tried for crimes that he did not commit. He willingly allowed the Romans to crucify him and suffer death. On the third day he rose from the grave because he had power over death and thus has provided all of us the ability to overcome death as well. The resurrection is a free gift to all of God’s children.

The Atonement of Jesus Christ provides those who willingly repent and keep God’s commandments and receive the saving ordinances of baptism and the temple sealing ordinances the opportunity to live eternally with our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ as families.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are the ones that declare the true generation of Jesus Christ. We know who Jesus Christ truly is and we worship him in truth and in spirit after the manner that he has revealed through his ancient and modern prophets.

To watch Elder Bruce R. McConkie’s devotional address click on the link below.

Your questions and comments are welcome.

It’s the Olympics!

The 23^rd Winter Olympics closes today and we have been treated to some of the most exciting sporting events over the past seventeen days. I love the Olympics; both summer and winter. The events are exciting and our national pride swells when the U.S. Athletes succeed. We also get to witness how athletes respond to what many see as failure. When my children were young and we watched the events of the summer and winter Olympics together one of the most often phrases I would say when someone would not live up to the hype that the media had portrayed them to be; was: “It’s the Olympics”!

The Olympics bring a stress unlike no other sporting event. The pressure for an athlete to win the gold medal is so intense that many athletes fail to live up to the expectations of others. This past two weeks were no exception. There were many that did not win gold, and many that did; some that were not expected to. In the days leading up to the Olympics in PheongChang, South Korea we were introduced to the Athletes that were supposed to be the best in their sports and would certainly win gold for the U.S. The Washington Post’s Headline for today (Sunday, February 25, 2018) was “With 23 Medal, Team USA falls short of expectations at PyeongChang Olympics”. In the article they mentioned that the USA was projected to win anywhere from 25-59 medals so on the surface it appeared the article was saying that Team USA was a failure; far from it. Alan Ashley, the U.S. Olympic Committee’s chief of sport performance, was quoted as saying:

“I pay attention to the medals, too, but I also pay attention to the team, and we’ve got an amazing team. I feel like there were a lot of really, really close finishes. It was not as though we were in situations where you say, ‘Oh, we’re going to do this great achievement,’ and then we were 20th, 40th, 70th, whatever. Instead, we have this huge group of athletes that was this far away from being on the podium.”

“American athletes finished in either fourth, fifth or sixth place here 35 times, potential medals if the U.S. Olympian was a split-second faster or perhaps impressed a judge just a bit more. I think we can take those fourth through sixth places and help convert them to somebody’s dream of standing on the podium.” (Washington Post)

Many of these fourth, fifth, or sixth places were only hundredths of a second slower than those that were on the podium. Sometime we feel that if they did not make the podium they failed. ARE YOU KIDDING ME? They made it to the OLYMPICS while we sit at home and criticize their performances? One person in the Washington Post’s article’s comment section reminded us: “the person that came in 104^th in the biathlon was better than the other 7.5 billion people on the planet”. The majority of humanity have no clue what it takes to make it to the Olympics, or what it really takes to make it to the podium. Even if they did understand they would not be willing to make the sacrifice that it takes to get there. I was a distance runner in high school (and a pretty good one) and my coach told me that I had the potential to go to the Olympics. The only problem was I was not willing to put in the hours needed to go from being a good high school athlete to develop what was needed in college let alone the Olympics. I love what Lindsey Vonn said when asked about how she felt about her performance at the 2018 Winter Olympics. She called the expectations surrounding gold medals “pretty out of whack.” And then went on to say:

“They’re not necessarily what the Olympics are all about,” she said. “The Olympics are a unifying event, one that has profound impact on the entire world, so to quantify it in how many medals you have, I think, is not appropriate and doesn’t respect the athletes and what they’ve put in to be at these Games. We are all athletes and want to win, and we do our best but sometimes it is not it is not what we want.”

Lindsey said she had given her all in her races and felt she was successful even though she did not win gold as everyone expected of her. She was there to do her best for her grandfather who had fought in the Korean War and had passed away last November. The athletes of the 2018 Winter games like many other games are there competing for different reasons and often they are there in memory of other athletes or family members. The US Men’s Four-man Bobsled Teams were there racing in memory of Steven Holcomb, one of their team members from the past two Olympics, that passed away last May.

Nathan Chan and most of the other members of the US Figure Skating Team did not live up to the hype that the media had portrayed for them. I loved it when the commentators would introduce a team member as being perfect in all their performances and had never fallen; then when they would fall and everyone would be shocked. “It’s the Olympics” I would say. Then they would come back and be spectacular once the pressure was off.

Some of the best moments were from athletes that were not expected to win but did. One of those was Ester Ledeka from the Czech Republic who had never finished better than 19^th in the Women’s Super-G – she won Gold! NBC had crowned the winner already and said that the others that were yet to compete had no chance of winning so they ended their coverage of that event and went on to another race. Then there is the US Men’s Curling Team that were almost out of the running because of losses in the preliminaries that came back an won gold,, the US’s first ever. I loved the US Women’s Hockey Team that for the fourth time went into the gold medal match with four-time gold medal winners, Team Canada. The last time they beat Canada was 20 years ago in 1998 but that did not stop them from achieving their dream. Then there is Jessie Diggins and Kikkan Randall who won gold, the first ever for Team USA, in the cross country team sprint event.

Every Olympics has those memorable moments, sometimes it is due to less than expected performances, but most of the time it is from those moments when the athletes rise above their own abilities and expectations and become Olympic champions. This year was the first time ever for a bobsled team from Nigeria and the first time ever an athlete from Jamaica competed in the skeleton race. The women’s Nigerian bobsled team can in 20 out of 20 and the Jamaican Skeleton athlete came in last, but to see them smile at the end of the race you would have thought they had won gold. To me, every olympic athletes are champions and should be recognized as such. They are the best of the best and the sacrifice they have made to represent their country should bring them honor and respect after all it is the Olympics.

Your comments and questions are welcome.

I Love You Because

This past week we celebrated Valentine’s Day. I am not much of a traditionalist and don’t care for all the commercialization and pressure that we feel to buy stuff that has no real lasting value. I believe that the simple things we do each day to show our love is more important. In saying this, I also know that my wife likes flowers and cards so I did give her some chocolates and a valentine’s card (she bought her own flowers) and we went out to dinner together.

Last year for valentine’s I bought my wife a frame that has “I love you because” written on it. We then can write expressions of our love to each other. It has been fun to see the message change every few days. I will write something to my wife and then a few days later it will be erased and my wife will write something to me. At first it was easy coming up with some way to express my love, but after a while it started to become more difficult to say something different. Usually something will happen in our daily interactions that I can use to say why I love her; and sometimes it has something to do with saying I’m sorry! Every time my wife writes me a new message, it reaffirms that she really does love me and I know by her reactions the same is true when I write something to her.

My wife and I have been married for almost 43 years and while we have had our struggles, we have endured and our love for each other has grown more than we could have imagined when we made our covenants that bind us together not only in this life but through all eternity. Not only did we make covenants with each other, we made covenants with God. In those covenants we promised to be loyal and faithful to each other and that no one else takes precedence over our spouse, not even our children. This means that our friends, hobbies, other family members, and even our work are secondary to our spouse. This does not mean we should ignore our employers requests to fulfill our responsibilities to them or the importance of our children. If we fail at work, then we fail in our primary responsibility to provide for our spouse and children. But we should not ignore our family needs and focus all our efforts on work. If we are an employer or supervisor, we should remember that our employees have other responsibilities than the ones we give them. We need to remember that our employees will be much more effective if their family responsibilities are being cared for.

I was not a good example of the proper priorities of putting my wife first above all others and it took many years to learn how to put her first. I also know that most couples struggle with this as well, but as long as we try to improve and repent when needed and make the necessary changes we can eventually grow and be perfected through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Many individuals when they retire when asked what they would do different if they could change anything say they would spend more time with their family.

The sanctity of marriage and family are under attack from all directions. When was the last time you watched a show on TV or gone to a movie that portrayed the family, especially the husband in a positive manner. Most of the fathers on TV are lazy and portrayed negatively or insignificant.

In “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” it states:

THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.

This inspired document shows every family how we can be successful and teach our children that families can succeed in today’s environment and not follow the example portrayed in the media. President Gordon B. Hinckley speaking to the youth of the church in a fireside on September 22, 1996 spoke of the myth some have about marriage. He said:

“Marriage requires a high degree of tolerance, and some of us need to cultivate that attribute. I have enjoyed these words of Jenkins Lloyd Jones, which I clipped from the newspaper some years ago. Said he:

“There seems to be a superstition among many thousands of our young [men and women] who hold hands and smooch in the drive-ins that marriage is a cottage surrounded by perpetual hollyhocks to which a perpetually young and handsome husband comes home to a perpetually young and [beautiful] wife. When the hollyhocks wither and boredom and bills appear the divorce courts are jammed. …

“Anyone who imagines that bliss [in marriage] is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he has been robbed.

“[The fact is] most putts don’t drop. Most beef is tough. Most children grow up to be just people. Most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration. Most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. …

“Life is like an old-time rail journey—delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed.

“The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride” (“Big Rock Candy Mountains,” Deseret News, 12 June 1973, A4). (A Conversation with Single Adults)

Successful marriages are hard, God intended it to be so, but as we endure all the smoke and dust around us and as we become more selfless and empathetic to the needs of our spouse we can all enjoy the beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. To be successful we not only are partners with our spouse but with our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. Only with faith in the Gospel of Jesus Christ and keeping the covenants we made in the temple can we achieve our full potential that Heavenly Father knows we can become.

It is tragic that the ever increasing number of women reporting abuse through the #MeToo Movement, it is bringing to light the amount of abuse women have experienced not only from individuals in power but in their marriages. Spouse and child abuse is a gross sin. There is no excuse for it and should be stopped. There have been reports in some social media of LDS bishops that have counseled women to stay in abusive relationships. The stand of the LDS Church is that abuse is not to be tolerated. I have been a bishop of a married student ward and have been in counseling sessions with couples that are going through trials. Fortunately, I have never had a spouse that reported spouse abuse but if I had, it is clear what I was required by the church to do and that is to call the church offices and report it. While bishops try to help couples with their problems and help the members to repent and stay together, anyone in an abusive relationship should be removed from the situation and the abuse dealt with according to church policy and the local laws. There may have been bishops that mistakenly told the wife to stay in an abusive relationship, but that is not what bishops are taught.

Our marriage has endured through many delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders and jolts. We have also had our share of beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. On one occasion when my wife was experiencing the smoke and dust that was a result my selfishness, she was complaining to a friend. Her friend simply said: “why don’t you just divorce him?” Because of our temple covenants my wife said: “No!”, then her friend said: “then shut up and deal with it”. We have been dealing with “it” ever since and can say we are experiencing more beautiful vistas and less sidetracks, smoke, and dust. Our love continues to grow stronger every day and we continue to write those “I Love You Because” note to each other often.

Your comments and questions are welcome.