By Small and Simple Things.
As the bishop of a married student ward I often work with
couples that are having a difficult time dealing with the stress of busy lives.
They have their classes, work, church, and their relationship with their spouse
and many other things. When this type of stress goes unchecked it has a
negative effect on everything. They get behind in their classes, and
frustrations can lead to difficulties in their marriages and even their health
declines. One of the things I try to help them understand is the need to
simplify their lives and get back to the basics. We talk about how they are
doing with their relationship with Heavenly Father, are they reading the
scriptures daily (individually and as a couple), praying daily (individually
and as a couple), are they keeping the Sabbath day holy? Many times these
things have slipped because they are too busy to do them regularly.
Usually when we start this process they ask how can I possibly
do these things when I don’t have any time? My response is faith. It takes
faith to start with the things that are most important and if we focus on them
the other things have a way of working out. It really is that simple. The lord
has said “that by small and simple things are great things brought to pass (Alma 37:6).
The Lord has promised us that if we will remember our covenants, pray, and be believing,
“all things will work out for (our) good” (D&C
90:24). Remember what happened to the children of Israel while they were
wandering in the wilderness and were stricken with the serpents and were bitten?
All they had to do was look on the staff of Moses to be healed, but many
thought that was silly and they perished. The prophet Nephi taught:
And
he did straiten them in the wilderness with his rod; for they hardened their hearts, even as ye have; and
the Lord straitened them because of their iniquity. He sent fiery flying serpents among them; and after they were
bitten he prepared a way that they might be healed;
and the labor which they had to perform was to look; and because of the simpleness of the way, or the easiness of it,
there were many who perished. (1 Nephi 17:41)
President Uchtdorf in the last general conference asked us
to think about the experience we are having as members of the church:
“I
wonder if we as Church members might also benefit from asking ourselves from
time to time: “Is my experience in the Church working for me? Is it bringing me
closer to Christ? Is it blessing me and my family with
peace and joy as promised in the gospel?”
“…why
does it seem to work better for some than for others? What is the difference
between those whose experience in the Church fills their souls with songs of
redeeming love2 and
those who feel that something is lacking?” (“It
Works Wonderfully”, Dieter F. Uchtdorf, General Conference, October 2015)
President Uchtdorf gave us two suggestions to help us. The first
is to simplify and the second was to start were we are. He said: “The gospel is
so simple a child can grasp it, yet so profound and complex that it will take a
lifetime – even an eternity – of study and discovery to fully understand it.”
For the second suggestion he said:
Sometimes we feel discouraged because we
are not “more” of something—more spiritual, respected, intelligent, healthy,
rich, friendly, or capable. Naturally, there is nothing wrong with wanting to
improve. God created us to grow and progress. But remember, our weaknesses can
help us to be humble and turn us to Christ, who will “make weak things become
strong.”4Satan, on the other hand, uses our
weaknesses to the point that we are discouraged from even trying.
I learned in my life that we don’t need
to be “more” of anything to start to become the person God intended us to
become.
God will take you as you are at this
very moment and begin to work with you. All you need is a willing heart, a
desire to believe, and trust in the Lord. (“It
Works Wonderfully”, Dieter F. Uchtdorf, General Conference, October 2015)
Glen L. Rudd spoke to the students of Brigham Young
University about keeping the gospel simple. When he was a young full-time
missionary he served with President Matthew Cowley (later a member of the
Quorum of the Twelve) in New Zealand. For the last part of Elder Rudd’s mission,
he lived in the mission home and had the opportunity to travel with President
Cowley. He said that President Cowley told him to keep his briefcase packed
with clean shirts, clean socks, and clean underwear. President Cowley told him “When
I say, ‘We’re going,” you grab your bag and beat me to the car, and don’t ask
questions.” Elder Rudd said:
“Once,
after we had driven a few miles, he asked, “Would you like to know where we’re
going?” I said, “Yes.” Then he said, “So would I! I’m not sure just where we’re
going, but we’ll keep going. And when the Lord tells us to turn, we’ll turn,
and we’ll end up where he wants us to be.”
“The Maori people used to pray for President Cowley to
come to them. One day he drove up to the front of a post office in a rather
distant city in New Zealand. There were two sisters standing by the post office
waiting. When he got out of the car, one said to the other, “See, I told you he
would be here soon.” President Cowley said, “Hey, what’s going on here?” One of
the sisters said, “We needed you and we’ve been praying. We knew you would be
coming, and you always go directly to the post office, so we decided to wait
here until you arrived.” It was just that simple. People would tell the Lord
what they wanted, and somehow or other President Cowley was led by the Spirit
to go where they were. Now, he wasn’t totally disorganized, but I have never
known anyone who planned less and accomplished more, simply by doing the things
he felt impressed to do.” (“Keeping
the Gospel Simple”, Glen L. Rudd, BYY Devotional, February 16, 1988)
Elder Rudd talked about how simple repentance can be. He
said many people feel that repentance is a “long drawn out process. That is
absolutely not necessary. We just quit doing what is wrong, make up for it in
the best possible way, and let the Lord do his part”. He told another story
from his experience with President Cowley”. There was a Maori man, Syd, that
went to America for high school and college and became a professional
basketball player. He was a member of the church but when he went back to New
Zealand he became inactive. He was a friend of President Cowley and one day
they went to see Syd. They found him sitting on his porch chewing on a cigar.
Elder Rudd said:
He
didn’t stop chewing on his cigar as President Cowley sat beside him to visit.
After they had talked and laughed for a while, President Cowley became serious
and said, “Syd, I want you to come to church tomorrow.”
They both looked toward the old chapel that was nearby,
and Syd said, “I think it would fall in! I haven’t been there for a long time.
I don’t think I’d better risk it.”
President Cowley said, “Syd, I want you to be there. I’m
going to do something important tomorrow.”
Syd inquired, “What are you going to do?”
President Cowley answered, “I’m going to release the
branch president and put in a new one.”
Syd said, “Why don’t you just tell me who the new branch
president will be, and then I won’t have to get myself cleaned up for church in
the morning.”
President Cowley said, “Well, I’ll tell you who it is.
It’s going to be you.”
Syd
had that old cigar in his mouth. He pulled it out and looked at it and said,
“Tumuaki, you mean me and my cigar?”
President Cowley said, “No, Syd—just you. We don’t need
your cigar.” (“Keeping
the Gospel Simple”, Glen L. Rudd, BYY Devotional, February 16, 1988)
Elder Rudd said Syd threw the cigar out on the ground and
said to President Cowley “I don’t break the word of wisdom anymore. I pay a
full-tithe. I will be the branch president, and I’ll be worthy.” He was one of
the best leaders in New Zealand. His son was the first bishop and his grandson
also served as the bishop of the ward. Elder Rudd continues:
“Now, that’s all there is to repentance. You see how simple
that really was? President Cowley never did ask Syd to repent. He gave him an
opportunity to be of service to the Church. He gave him a priesthood calling.
Syd knew he could no longer sin, so he immediately quit. It was over—just like
that! The Lord accepted his repentance, and Syd became a great leader.
“My whole purpose in telling you these stories today is to
bear testimony to you that simplicity is possible. Almost every principle and
every doctrine of the Church can be made simple if we make the effort. It is absolutely
possible to live righteously and properly in a simple way.”
The Lord knows how to hear our
prayers—so pray!
The Lord knows
how to give us faith—so ask him for faith!
The Lord knows
how to help us repent—so repent as needed!
(“Keeping
the Gospel Simple”, Glen L. Rudd, BYY Devotional, February 16, 1988)
My message is that if we will live the gospel of Jesus
Christ in it’s simplicity and not complicate it, everything the Lord has in
store for us will come to pass. You will complete your classes, graduate, get
the job you need, and provide for your family. Your relationship with your
spouse and children will be sweet and joyful. The Lord has promised us that by
small and simple things great things will be accomplished if we only believe.
Your comments and questions are welcome.