Sunday, February 3, 2019

Don't Mow Your Lawn


What would you do if you were told that the Savior Jesus Christ was going to come visit you in your home later today? Would you run home and clean the house and mow the lawn? Ross Baron speaking at a BYU-Idaho Education week posed that question. He was talking about the experience in the scriptures with Mary and Martha when the Savior came to their home:

 “Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house.

And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus’ feet, and heard his word.

But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me.

And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things:

But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:38-42)

Martha and Mary
Which one would you be – Martha or Mary? Brother Baron asked the question to the audience:

“If the First Presidency called and said they would be at your home in an hour what would you do? Would you go home and clean the house and vacuum, or would you just push the Cheetos off the sofa and say ‘come on in and sit down’”? (The Savior’s Interaction with Women in the New Testament)

In the old testament time, women were the ones that were responsible for taking care of the guests when they visit. Martha took that responsibility seriously, but Mary chose to go against that tradition and sat at the Lord’s feet to hear him teach. The Savior did not condemn the activities of Martha, but Martha’s judgement of Mary’s activity. Jesus would have honored Martha’s choice to serve and provide a meal if she had not complained about Mary’s choice. The moment that Martha judges Mary’s choice was when the Savior got involved. There is a time and a place for all things. There is a time for service and there is a time for worship. We don’t go to church for our Sunday worship services and in the middle of that service we have someone come in to vacuum the chapel.

In a world of constant choices, we must have balance and make sure we are not out mowing the lawn, that we choose the “good part” to worship at the Savior’s feet when we are given the opportunity.

Your comments and questions are welcome.

Sunday, January 20, 2019

Believe Christ


Serving here in Indiana as a senior missionary I enjoy listening to the younger missionaries relate the experiences they are having as they teach families about the Gospel of Jesus Christ and how it changes their lives, both the missionaries and the families they teach. I love hearing their testimony of how the individuals they are teaching learn to apply the atonement of Jesus Christ in their lives, enter the waters of baptism and then receive the Holy Ghost.

I am reminded of a young man that I taught when I was a young missionary in the Alaska British Columbia Mission. It was so long ago that Parley P. Pratt was my companion, LOL! It seems a long time ago, but it was only 44 years ago. This young man had no problem believing in the restoration of the gospel through the Prophet Joseph Smith. He loved reading the Book of Mormon and had a testimony that it was true, but he would not be baptized.

After many visits and questions on why he did not want to be baptized he finally said that he could not be baptized because his sins were so bad that he would never be forgiven. It was too late for him and there was no way back. We had a discussion about the atonement of Jesus Christ and he said that he believed in Jesus Christ but just felt that he was past redemption and beyond Christ’s reach.

In an Ensign article titled “Believing Christ”, Stephen E. Robinson said:

To have faith in Jesus Christ is not merely to believe that he is who he says he is. Both as a bishop and as a teacher, I have heard several variations on a theme of doubt. Some have said, “Bishop, I’ve sinned too horribly. I’ll be active in the Church, and I hope for some reward. But I couldn’t ever hope to be exalted after what I’ve done.” Others have said, “I’m weak and imperfect. I don’t have all the talents that Brother Jones (or Sister Smith) does. I’ll never be the bishop (or the Relief Society president). I’m just average. I expect my reward in eternity will be a little lower than theirs.”

“All of these are variations on the same theme: “I do not believe Christ can do what he claims. I have no faith in his ability to exalt me.”

“The great truth of the gospel is that we have a Savior who can and will save us from ourselves, from what we lack, from our imperfections, from the carnality within us, if we seek his help.”

Brother Robinson then told of an experience he had with his daughter. She wanted a bike and so he told her: “if she saved all her pennies, she would eventually have enough to buy a bike”. Then he forgot about it until she came to him with a jar of pennies and asked if they could go buy the bike. They went and looked at bikes and she finally found the bike she wanted. When she saw the price of the bike, she burst into tears saying she would never have enough money.

Brother Robinson asked how much money she had and she said: “sixty-one cents”. He told that if she would give him the money and a hug he would pay the rest. She rode the bike home as he drove slowly. He then said:

“As I drove beside her, I thought of the atonement of Christ. We all desperately want the celestial kingdom. We want to be with our Father in Heaven. But no matter how hard we try, we come up short. At some point all of us must realize, “I can’t do this by myself. I need help.” Then it is that the Savior says, in effect, All right, you’re not perfect. But what can you do? Give me all you have, and I’ll do the rest.”

How many of us, like brother Robinson’s daughter think we will never have enough to buy our bike or get into the celestial kingdom? Or like the young man that would not be baptized, think that we are too far gone for the Lord to forgive us?

I testify that we must not only have faith in Jesus Christ, but we must believe him when he says: 

“Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” (Matthew 11:29) If we have the faith to cry as one father asked of Christ: “help thou mine unbelief” (Mark 9:24), then we can all be saved by the grace of Jesus Christ.

I welcome your comments and questions.


Where Justice, Mercy, and Love Meet

Sunday, January 13, 2019

Having Eyes and Seeing Not


As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints we believe in living prophets, just like Moses, Elijah and other Old Testament prophets. Today that prophet is Russell M. Nelson. We believe that he receives revelation in the same manner that all the Old Testament prophets did, directly from God. In the past year that President Nelson has been the president of The Church since January 14, 2018. Members of The Church have witnessed the blessings of having a living prophet to guide us.

We have witnessed the change in home and visiting teaching to “ministering”, a change in Melchizedek priesthood quorums, the change in Sunday meeting times, a change to family centered gospel study, 19 new temples announced in one year, and a change in how young men and women advance in the priesthood and the young women’s program. These changes are just a few examples, there are others that this type of forum does not allow me to discuss due to the sacredness of the topics. I understand that this is just the beginning. President Nelson just this past October said:

“We’re witnesses to a process of restoration,” said the prophet. “If you think the Church has been fully restored, you’re just seeing the beginning. There is much more to come. … Wait till next year. And then the next year. Eat your vitamin pills. Get your rest. It’s going to be exciting.” (Mormon Newsroom)

I can’t wait to see what is next, we live in an exciting time of growth for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. But all members have not accepted these changes with the faith that they should. As members of The Church we are taught that we need to have our own testimonies of the restoration of The Gospel of Jesus Christ and living prophets, we do not live by blind faith alone. If we don’t have personal testimonies that President Nelson is the Lord’s living prophet, when changes in policies and programs happen those member’s faith can be challenged.

I know a bishop (not here in Indiana) whose members are angry with him because he wants to have the 11-year-old be ordained deacons, or their 11-year-old daughters leave primary and join the young women’s program. They are also upset their older children are being encouraged to be ordained to other priesthood offices in January instead of on their birthday, the way it used to be before the changes. When they asked this bishop what he thought, he said that they should follow the prophet’s counsel. They were upset when he did not agree with their desire to not follow Lord’s prophet.

It reminded me of something I read in a book called “Boxing The Lord In: And Other Ways We Hinder Revelation” by Stephen K. Hunsaker and Michelle K. Hunsaker. In his book, brother and sister Hunsaker share several habits that we have that limit The Lord in giving us answers to our prayers through revelation. One chapter is titled: “Casting Our Eyes About”. They reminded us of Lehi’s dream of the Tree of Life in the Book of Mormon (1 Nephi 8) where there were two distinct groups that made it to The Tree of Life and were able to partake of the fruit. One group once they had partaken of the fruit took their eyes off the tree and looked to those who were mocking and making fun of them. This group felt ashamed and fell away. The other group after partaking of the fruit kept their focus on The Tree (which represents the Savior Jesus Christ) and did not pay attention to those mocking and making fun of them. Because their focus was on the Savior, they were able to stay strong and not fall away. I highly recommend this book for anyone that would like to improve their relationship with the Savior and their prayers. You can go here to find more information.

I think it is interesting that the members of this ward, instead of questioning the change in the programs, were angry with the bishop for following the counsel of The Lord’s prophet. They were taking their eyes off “the tree” and giving in to the mocking of the world and in their own way letting go of the iron rod and falling away.

I must be careful in stating this that I do not criticize the lack of faith of someone to the point that I think that I am somehow better than them or more faithful. There is no place in the Gospel of Jesus Christ for anyone to judge why someone, in our limited opinion, is not following the prophet or other church leaders, including their local leaders. We simply cannot expect to understand what causes a member to think or believe the way they do. We can only love and encourage them to gain a greater testimony of the inspiration that comes to those whom the Lord calls to preside over us. We must accept everyone where they are and hope that we can all progress on the Gospel path to the tree of life together and without letting go of the iron rod as we go.

I am excited for the changes that have come and for those that we anticipate coming. For those that have yet to gain a testimony of the changes I challenge them to put it to the test. Go to the Lord in prayer and find out for yourself “if these things are not true” and I promise that you will know “by the power of the Holy Ghost that they are true” (Moroni 10:4)

The prophet Jeremiah described the people that do not accept the Lord’s counsel as “foolish people, and without understanding; which have eyes, and see not; which have ears, and hear not” (Jeremiah 5:21). I hope that as members of the Lord’s Church we will follow his prophet and have eyes that see and that we will keep our focus on the Savior and not give heed to those who would distract us or cause us to fall away.

Your questions and comments are welcome, and thank you for sharing this message with your social media friends. 

Sunday, January 6, 2019

Come Follow Me


Today members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints started the new Sunday schedule of worship and a new curriculum of study. The three-hour block that began in 1980 was shortened to two hours; one hour for sacrament meeting and fifty minutes for Sunday School and other priesthood and auxiliary lessons. The new curriculum titled “Come Follow Me” will be used for all Sunday School, Primary, Young Men and Women classes, as well as priesthood and relief society instruction.
Elder Cook in his October General Conference address that explained the changes were more than shortening the Sunday meeting times, but included four purposes for the changes:

1.     Deepening conversion to Heavenly Father and the Lord Jesus Christ and strengthening faith in Them.

2.     Strengthening individuals and families through home-centered, Church-supported curriculum that contributes to joyful gospel living.

3.     Honoring the Sabbath day, with a focus on the ordinance of the sacrament.

4.     Helping all of Heavenly Father’s children on both sides of the veil through missionary work and receiving ordinances and covenants and blessings of the temple.

As member of The Church we can come closer to the Savior Jesus Christ by improving our individual and family gospel study program and improving our Sabbath worship. The Church’s role in the salvation of its members is more of a supportive role and places the major responsibility on families and individuals.

This week my wife and I continued to have scripture study together by reading the Book of Mormon. For our individual scripture study program, we are now reading the “Come Follow Me for Individuals and Families” lessons. Today when we came home from our Sunday meetings, we discussed what we had learned from our individual study. It was a fun experience to be able to discuss the scriptures we read during the week on our own and the impressions we had received, and I know if we continue to do this each week our testimony and understanding of the scriptures will deepen and our love for Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ will increase.

When the rich young man came to Jesus and asked what he needed to do to have eternal life, Jesus to him that he should keep the commandments and then the young man said he had done that all his life. The young man then asked, “what lack I yet?” Jesus told him to sell all he had and then “come, follow me” (Luke 8:22). We have all been given the same invitation to come follow Jesus Christ. We may not have to sell all we have, but we each have something that we consider as precious as the young man’s wealth that we must be willing to “sell”. Are we willing to sell whatever it is that is keeping us from coming closer to the Savior or will we go a way sorrowing because we are not willing to sacrifice our ‘wealth”?

My wife and I are excited about these changes and the opportunity to accept the invitation to come follow our Savior. As we increase our personal and family gospel study it will bring us closer to the Savior and at the same time, we will grow closer as a couple.
Your comments and questions are welcome.

Sunday, December 30, 2018

Wise Men Still Seek Him

’Twas the night after Christmas when all through the house
Everyone was posting, and clicking their mouse
The Instagram filters were chosen with care,
In hopes that each image would soon get a share.

The children were all on the couch iPads and tablets in their hands
While images of zombies and angry birds ate up the WiFi bands.
And mamma with her Mini and I with my Android
Updated our status and sent messages into the void.


I could go on, but I’m sure you can guess the rest of the poem. In many ways Christmas has become a time of getting lost in our gadgets, instead of spending time with family, friends and service. What did you get for Christmas is the question the children ask their friends as we spend time updating our status on Facebook and sharing images on Pintrest and Instagram. How much time was spent talking about the person whose birth we celebrate during this Christmas season? Thomas S. Monson, once said:

“The gifts so acquired are fleeting. Dolls break, dresses wear out, and fun games become boring. Pocketknives are lost, trains do nothing but go in circles, and trucks are abandoned when the batteries that power them dim and die.

“If we change but one word in our Christmas question, the outcome is vastly different. “What did you give for Christmas?” prompts stimulating thought and causes tender feelings to well up and memory’s fires to glow ever brighter.

“Giving, not getting, brings to full bloom the Christmas spirit. Enemies are forgiven, friends remembered, and God obeyed. The spirit of Christmas illuminates the picture window of the soul, and we look out upon the world’s busy life and become more interested in people than things.” (“Christmas Gifts, Christmas Blessings”, Ensign, December 1995).

Celtic Carol - Lindsey Stirling

As the Christmas season ends and we look to the New Year, many of us will make resolutions of the things we hope to be able to accomplish during the New Year. Along with the diets, exercise, projects that we want to do I challenge each of us to include service as one of our resolutions. What can we do to help our neighbors, someone that is suffering, lost his or her job or a loved one, or the young mother that is overwhelmed?

President Monson in that same article tells of a family that lived in Star Valley, Wyoming long ago where the father was away from home working trying to support his family. One evening one of the boys overheard his mother praying:

‘Heavenly Father, there is no food in our house. Please, Father, touch the heart of somebody so that my children will not be hungry in the morning.’

“When she finished her prayer, she looked around and saw her son had heard; and she said to me, somewhat embarrassed, ‘Now, you run along, son. Everything will be all right.’ (“Christmas Gifts, Christmas Blessings”).


The story continues:

“(the boy) went to bed, assured by Mother’s faith. The next morning, (the boy) was awakened by the sounds of pots and pans in the kitchen and the aroma of cooking food. I went down to the kitchen, and he said, ‘Mother, I thought you said there was no food.’

“All she said to me was, ‘Well, my boy, didn’t you think the Lord would answer my prayer?’ I received no further explanation than that.”

Years later after the boy grew up, went to college and had a family he came home and Bishop Gardner told him the rest of the story. He said:

“I had finished my chores, and we had had supper. I was sitting by the fireplace reading the newspaper. Suddenly, I heard a voice that said, “Sister Ballantyne doesn’t have any food in her house.” I thought it was my wife speaking and said, “What did you say, Mother?” She came in wiping her hands on her apron and said, “Did you call me, Father?”

“‘“No, I didn’t say anything to you, but I heard a voice which spoke to me.”

“‘“What did it say?” she asked.

“‘“It said that Sister Ballantyne didn’t have any food in her house.”

“‘“Well, then,” said Mother, “you had better put on your shoes and your coat and take some food to Sister Ballantyne.” In the dark of that winter’s night, I harnessed the team and placed in the wagon bed a sack of flour, a quarter section of beef, some bottled fruit, and loaves of newly baked bread. The weather was cold, but a warm glow filled my soul as your mother welcomed me and I presented her with the food. God had heard a mother’s prayer.’”

The scriptures tell the story of the wise men that came to see the Christ child and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh.  Matthew tells the story:

Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judæa in the days of Herod the king, behold, there came wise men from the east to Jerusalem,

Saying, Where is he that is born King of the Jews? for we have seen his star in the east, and are come to worship him.

And they said unto him, In Bethlehem of Judæa: for thus it is written by the prophet,

When they had heard the king, they departed; and, lo, the star, which they saw in the east, went before them, till it came and stood over where the young child was.

When they saw the star, they rejoiced with exceeding great joy.

¶And when they were come into the house, they saw the young child with Mary his mother, and fell down, and worshipped him: and when they had opened their treasures, they presented unto him gifts; gold, and frankincense, and myrrh. (Matthew 2:1-11)

I hope that as the memories of this Christmas season fades that we will remember how the wise men followed the star that led them to the Christ Child and when they had found him, they presented him with their gifts. What gifts will we present to him? I do not discount the gifts that the wise men gave, but I don’t believe that Christ would have us give him material things, instead I think he would like us to give gifts of love to others, charitable service to those in need and gifts of comfort to those that need our help.

As we give of ourselves in this way we well receive the greatest gift of all from him when he says to us at the last day:

Well done, thou good and faithful servant . . . enter thou into the joy of thy lord…Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me. (Matthew 25: 21, 45)

I invite you to watch this 3 minute video titled “Wise Men Still Seek Him”. Are we wise enough to continue to seek him?

Wise Men Still Seek Him - Modern-day Story of the Wise Men

Your comments and questions are welcome. I would appreciate it if you would share this with your social media friends. 

Sunday, December 23, 2018

The Story of O Holy Night

Today was our Christmas program in church and one of the speakers, Silas Smith, told the story of how the song “O Holy Night” was written. I loved it so much I want to share it as we celebrate the Savior’s birth. I don’t know where Brother Smith found the story he told in church, but I found this version of it at Beliefnet.com. With the information from their source and a Wikipedia article I found, here is the story of how “O Holy Night” has become one of the most sung Christmas Carols along with some of my favorite versions of “O Holy Night”.

In 1847 a parish in France had just finished restoring their organ and the Priest wanted to have a special musical number during the midnight mass on Christmas eve that year. The Priest asked a local poet, Placide Cappeau de Roquemaure, to write the words for a new song. Placide Cappeau de Roquemaure was not only a poet, he was the commissionaire of wines and more of an atheist than an active believer. He was honored by the request and he went to work by studying the gospel of Luke’s story of the birth of Jesus Christ and imagining what it would have been like to be present and witnessing the birth of Jesus in Bethlehem. The Poem was titled “Cantique de Noel”.

The poet asked a well know classical musician, Adolphe Charles Adams, to write the music for the song. The request to write music for a Christian song was and interesting request since he was Jewish and did not believe that Jesus’ birth was divine, but he went to work on the project and the result was performed for the first time by an opera singer, Emily Laurey, on Christmas Eve 1847 in an obscure Parish in France.



The new Christmas carol was an instant hit among the French people and was often performed in Catholic Christmas services until the heads of the Catholic Church found out the words were written by an atheist and the music by a Jew. It was banned from church services; however, the French people loved it so much that they continued to sing it anyway.


O Holy Night found its way to America thanks to the efforts of American Unitarian minister, John Sullivan Dwight, he loved the song and wanted to bring it to America. He was also an abolitionist and thought that the third verse was supportive of the importance of banning slavery: "Truly he taught us to love one another; his law is love and his gospel is peace. Chains shall he break, for the slave is our brother; and in his name all oppression shall cease." Dwight translated “Cantique de Noel” and called it “O Holy Night”. The Christmas carol was particularly popular in the North during the Civil War.



The Christmas carol has another first in its history when on Christmas Eve 1906 Reginal Fessenden, a university professor and former chief chemist for Thomas Edison, was the first to broadcast his voice over the radio waves. Until that time the radio waves only carried the dots and dashes of Morse code. On that night professor Fessenden spoke into a microphone the words from Luke chapter 2 of the Savior’s birth and then he picked up his violin and played “O Holy Night” which became the first song broadcast over the radio.

Quoting from the Beliefnet.com story:

“Since that first rendition at a small Christmas mass in 1847, "O Holy Night" has been sung millions of times in churches in every corner of the world. And since the moment a handful of people first heard it played over the radio, the carol has gone on to become one of the entertainment industry's most recorded and played spiritual songs. This incredible work--requested by a forgotten parish priest, written by a poet who would later split from the church, given soaring music by a Jewish composer, and brought to Americans to serve as much as a tool to spotlight the sinful nature of slavery as tell the story of the birth of a Savior--has become one of the most beautiful, inspired pieces of music ever created.

I hope that we can all pause in our rush to buy presents, wrap them, and put them under the CHRISTmas tree that we will remember why we have this holiday. It is the birth of The Only Begotten son of Heavenly Father in the flesh, Jesus Christ that we celebrate Christmas. We celebrate his birth, his life, his atonement, and resurrection. We celebrate the love that he has for us and for the gift of his life that he gave to us that allows us to return to his presence and the presence of Heavenly Father as families if we will only have faith in him, repent of our sins, are baptized by those having authority to perform saving ordinances, make and keep covenants in the Lord’s house that will bind us together as families.

In the words of Tiny Tim from Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol” “God bless us everyone”; and from that jolly old elf himself: “Happy Christmas to all”.









Sunday, December 16, 2018

The Nativity Story – Which Part Would You Be?


Like many families, one our favorite Christmas traditions was telling the nativity story by each family member, once they were old enough, acting in one of the various parts of the story. I was usually the donkey (for more reasons than being the dad – I fit the part!) that Mary rode to Bethlehem.  Our only daughter, Michelle, was always Mary. Whoever was the new born child was baby Jesus and Michael our oldest, was normally Joseph. As our family grew or when we had visitors join us for Christmas, we were able to add the shepherds, the inn keeper, the wise men, and various animals. This was always one of the most memorable times during the Christmas season and our children loved participating in the story. Now that our children are grown and have children of their own, they are continuing the tradition of having their own nativity stories with their children playing various roles.

In addition to these basic roles in the nativity story, there are many other participants including Zacharias and Elizabeth, Simeon and Anna in the temple, the Angel Gabriel, King Herod, and many others. The nativity story also includes all that parts of the ministry of Jesus including, the disciples who followed Jesus, those who were curious, those who hated him, those who believed his testimony, those who were healed or forgiven, the Roman soldiers, those who betrayed him, and so many others.

In the Americas we have another group of people that showed great faith and those who plotted against the believers. Each one that participated in the events that lead up to the birth of the Savior Jesus Christ, through his ministry, and eventually to the cross and his resurrection chose their individual roles.

I hope that if I had lived during that time that I would have been one of the supporting roles and not one of the detractors or one that rejected him. Because of my faith and belief in Jesus Christ now believe I would have been one of the wise men that knew of the prophecies and had come seeking to know where the King of the Jews was and then finding the child I would kneel at his feet and present him gifts. Maybe I would have been among the Shepherds tending the temple flock of sheep that to whom the Angel announced the birth of the baby and then they said: “let us go see”. I hope that I would have gone to see and then having seen testified to everyone that the prophecies were fulfilled, that the Messiah had come.

I could not see myself in the role of the detractors. I would hope that I would not have been the Innkeeper that said there was no room for Christ in his life, or those that rejected Christ because he was from Nazareth, Joseph’s son, or because he taught hard doctrine. I definitely would not be among those that threw stones at Christ, screamed that he should be crucified, or nailed him to the cross.

I could see me being someone in the crowd that heard him and then chose to follow him, that cried to him as he passed by to stop and heal me, to eat with me, or to bless my child. There are so many ways that we allow the Savior into our lives or shut him out. Do we cry out that we should not believe him because he does not follow what we think is the “law of Moses” or are we looking for a better way to love God and our fellow men?

My hope this Christmas season is that whatever role we choose, we choose so that our actions testify to the world that Jesus Christ was born, lived, served everyone, and was crucified so that everyone would have the opportunity to be resurrected and live again. What nativity part would you choose to play?

Your comments and questions are welcome, and I encourage you to share this with your friends and family.


Home Free, Angels We Have Heard on High




The Choir and Orchestra at Temple Square – For Unto Us A Child Is Born